Daryl Perry

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Why Holding Grudges Isn’t Worth Your Time or Energy

Hey there. Have you ever caught yourself in a loop, replaying conversations or scenarios in your mind, imagining how you could prove someone wrong? I’ve been there, and I know how exhausting it is.

Here’s the hard truth: Holding on to a grudge doesn’t hurt “them.” It only hurts you. The time, energy, and mental space you spend replaying those moments aren’t helping you move forward. In fact, they’re keeping you stuck.

When you let go, you’re not giving up—you’re taking control. It’s not about proving anything to anyone. It’s about showing yourself that you deserve peace, clarity, and a future focused on your goals.

Yes, people will come and go in your life, and their roles may not always be clear. That’s the messy part of life. But your energy is too valuable to waste on trying to prove your worth to someone who might not even be paying attention.

Today might be the day you decide to move forward. Let go of the grudge. Let go of the need to prove them wrong. Focus on yourself, your growth, and the future you’re building.

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